The benefits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply.
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About "merits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply"
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Well everyone,
About the benefits of getting to know yourself deeply
Have you ever thought about it?
actually
To get to know yourself deeply
There was a lot of merit.
So
The story I will tell you from now on
By using it consciously
I'm alive and I get a lot of money
Please try it.
Let's start with the benefits.
What is the merit of getting to know yourself deeply?
that is
It means "to deepen the relationship with the other party".
When I asked the answer,
Unexpectedly "That's it?"
It may have become, but
actually
This answer is
It can be used in various places.
For example
At work
The deeper you get along with your trading partners
Transactions can be done smoothly and
Even if you make a few mistakes
It's relatively easy to forgive.
How about in-house?
If you get to know your colleagues and boss
It also increases reliability and
Work is fast,
It will be easier for you to get ahead.
What about romance?
Even if you just ask about the other person
When I'm not open, I don't tell you much.
At that time
I'm trying this method.
in short
I just listen to the other person
Instead of talking about small things
You start talking about yourself.
I have a personality like this
What do you like
What do you hate
I will tell you.
Then
To the other party
"I'm such a person"
It will also make you imagine
By talking about personality and likes and dislikes
There may be something in common.
At that time, the topic will expand.
But here is one,
There are some things to be aware of.
It is
Telling bragging stories or pretty heavy dark stories.
When you just talk about yourself
Riding pretty well
I talked about old bragging stories
To get to know you deeply
"No, it's heavy"
There are people who talk darkly.
But this,
Most people
I'm not interested in the bragging stories of others
When the relationship is still not so good
Even if you hear a dark story
"Stop being involved anymore".
of course
This kind of story
There are ways to make good use of it,
Little by little from now on
If you're trying to get along
Suddenly telling bragging stories or heavyweight dark stories
It is wise to stop.
Then next
It ’s a way to get to know yourself deeply,
My personality and what I like,
Rather than roughly telling what you dislike
It is to convey in detail.
for example
"I like animals"
Not
"I like dogs"
Anyway,
In the next conversation
"I like the place where dogs are doing"
"When I see a dog, I feel at ease."
What do you like about dogs?
I will tell you concretely based on my experience.
Then
The person who is me
It is naturally imaged by the other person's brain.
However,
What you have to be careful about here is
It's too detailed to convey.
If you add too long a description
Before the end of the story
Because the other party gets tired of listening
At the beginning
Be aware of about 60% of the full text
I think it's good to tell.
So today
About "the benefits and methods of getting to know yourself deeply"
I've talked to you.
A little on the way
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