A miserable end that waits for someone who forgives him for something
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end that waits for someone who forgives you for something".
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Well, everyone.
Aren't you around you?
A person who forgives himself for giving some reason.
While saying that, I'm actually this kind of person.
So today, I can't say it in a very loud voice, so I'll speak in a slightly lower tone.
Well, what kind of impression do you have of such a person?
For people who forgive themselves for something.
What is it like?
Aren't there few people who have a very good impression?
Because it's sweet to myself.
Aren't there quite a few people who think of people who are sweet to themselves?
Because many Japanese people have been educated since they were young in the spirit of "strict with themselves", "do your best" and "by guts".
Even during the war, it seems that they were told a lot to "be patient".
That's why the word "I'll do my best" was created in Japanese.
By the way, there are quite a few countries that do not have the word "I will do my best".
For example, France seems to be the same.
It's obvious that there is no word to do your best in a country, but there is nothing to do your best.
I guess that's the case with work, study, and socializing with people.
Instead of doing your best, you would have lived by giving up on it right away or choosing not to do it in the first place.
Somehow, I think it's a wonderful country.
Because you don't have to do your best, it's not hard, is it?
Doesn't it mean that you can live comfortably if it's not hard?
Being at ease means that you don't get too much stress, and in a good way, it means that you can live in Noh weather, right?
Just do what you like.
Even so, it can become a developed country like France, so it made me think that Japan is a really inefficient country.
And I can't help but speak ill of my own country, so I'll get back to the main topic.
Well, about people who are sweet to themselves, then why is that so?
People, including me, will it lead to a miserable end in Japan? That's what I mean, but if you're sweet to yourself, you'll be thought to be weak-willed.
For example, let's say, "Today, I'm tired, I'm tired, I don't want to do it," and I spoiled myself without doing my usual routine.
This is, if you say the original, say to yourself, "Let's do this!" So you decided to follow the rules you decided, right?
So from a person with a strong will, it becomes, "I decided for myself, so at least keep that."
When it comes to protecting it properly, it is easy to make a good impression from the eyes around you, such as "That person has a strong will, and he will continue to protect what he has decided."
The point is that what you say and what you do coincide, so you are well consistent there.
I'm doing the right thing.
What you say and what you do are not inconsistent, is it?
That's why I become a trustworthy existence.
That means that people with weak will can't be trusted, right?
The fact that your will is weak is a person who spoils you, so all such people, including me, have low credibility.
I'm sorry, but that's right.
So why don't you reconsider the sweetness to yourself from now on? That was what we talked about today.
However, you don't necessarily have to do it stoically.
If you do it too stoically, it will make your heart cramped.
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