A miserable end waiting for those who try to compete with others right away
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for people who want to compete with others right away".
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Well, everyone.
Isn't there anyone around you?
People who try to compete with others right away.
When I find someone like this, I always think, "Oh, it's kind of a pity."
For example, as soon as you put something on, "I used to be like this!" Or, "I'm more amazing!" Or, "I used to be great too!" And a person who comes out to compete more and more with things he hasn't heard, and repeats around the heroic story that he used to be amazing.
You are there, aren't you?
Also in the community you belong to.
By the way, these kinds of people are everywhere.
Even if you leave the community where you are now, when you belong to the next community, another person of the same category will come out, so please be careful.
Well, well, I don't care about such a story, I'm going to talk about this tragic end waiting for people who want to compete with others right away, but if you talk so far, you will be considering the end unexpectedly, right?
If it's everyone who has read my blog so far.
Because it's already annoying to see, isn't it?
The words are bad, but even if you say it sparingly.
Even if I take one example I gave earlier, he said, "Even if you tell me such a long time ago now."
"It used to be like that, but it's different now, isn't it?"
For those who have corners, "You can say anything with your mouth!" Some people may say it in a way that they made a little fun of it.
But it can't be helped even if you make fun of me.
That's how much other people's heroic stories, bragging stories, and past glory stories don't matter to people.
Well, for example.
It's different if you think, "I want to know more about that person," or "I want to understand more, what kind of person he is."
In such a case, I will listen to various things in depth from here, but at the level of just small talk, even if you are told a heroic story that you haven't heard, most people haven't heard 10% of the story.
In the end, there was an interesting story, and there were people who researched how much they were talking about among the information that others were giving out, and I was surprised to see the results.
In the transmission of information from others that people are receiving, the proportion of what they are talking about is actually 7%.
It's only 7%.
Even if we tried our best to talk to the other person so that we could understand, the content of the story we received affected the other party only 7% of the total.
The other 93% were deprived of their awareness of the information transmitted from places that were easy to understand and affected, such as the other person's appearance and voice.
Well, it's just about data, so it may be too much, and it's a story with individual differences, but for others, my story is a topic that I'm not interested in.
But there are people who develop more and more without noticing that.
Of course, the tragic end waiting for such people is only the end of being disliked, isn't it?
You ignore other people's feelings and only talk like you feel good, so you'll be disgusted by others, and you'll hear stories that you're not interested in all the time, and in a sense, it's just pain, isn't it?
That means that there is a high possibility that the destination will be disliked and become a botch.
So, everyone, please be careful not to be like this.
When you notice it, it's already late, because there are things like that.
Especially older people, and there are many men who see this tendency, so if you don't want to be alone in the community you belong to, we recommend that you try to reflect on your own words and actions again.
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