It's people who want to give meaning to what happened
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Today, I'm going to talk about "It's people who want to give meaning to what happened", but is there anyone who came to mind when they heard this topic?
What do you think?
Isn't there much?
Because you're not very aware of this and don't usually live, do you?
That's right.
Everyone is right.
Everyone is right.
That's why I wanted everyone to be aware of this and live their daily lives this.
This is because if you live your daily life with the awareness of "it is people who want to give meaning to what happened", many things will look different.
For example, let's say you saw a poster saying "No drunk driving"?
If you look at this normally, "Don't drink and drive!" Doesn't that mean?
It is said that if you break the rules, you will be punished painfully, right?
Probably 90% of people take it that way.
However, some people see the poster and think, "That said, it's okay if it's a little."
"You don't want to be found out, right?" It's like that.
It's unscrupulous, what I'm saying now, in terms of common sense in the world, from a person who actually lost a loved one in a traffic accident with drunk driving, I'm saying something extremely unserious.
I'm aware of that, but here, in order to explain my story properly, let me say one thing until the end.
Also, it's a selfish request, but please listen to the end.
What I want to say is, that is, the phenomenon that happened.
In this analogy, I saw a poster that said, "Don't drink and drive".
This is the fact that happened.
It means that depending on your mentality and values, you can perceive this fact in either way.
This is what I wanted to tell everyone.
In addition, there is a red light.
The analogy of the transportation system continues, but when they see a red light, I think almost 90% of people probably imagine "stop".
Or "dangerous" or "dangerous".
Most people imagine something that stops their actions.
But, after all, even when you look at the red light, some people think, "If you're still careful, you can cross."
Or, "If the car doesn't come, it's okay to cross."
This is also true, I'm not talking about not having to follow traffic rules or laws, but my consciousness, values, and mentality are up and down, and the interpretation of something when you see it will change.
It means that everyone doesn't think "stop" just because they saw a red light.
If you are mentally impatient, you will be able to cut it off even if you say "stop", and if you are in a relaxed mood, you will also think, "It's okay to drink and drive a little."
That means, when you give meaning to what happens, don't you feel happier if you add a positive meaning?
Because plus is more fun.
Don't you feel that you can enjoy your life by adding a positive meaning to all the events that have happened rather than giving them a negative meaning?
Well, I think everyone has a preference, so I don't think everyone needs to give a positive meaning, but if you want to experience negative feelings or negative emotions, you just need to give a negative meaning.
Well, when you give your own meaning to what happened, you can choose whether it's positive or negative, so you can give meaning to the one you like, but my recommendation is overwhelmingly positive, I also recommend that everyone think carefully about which meaning should be used for the events that happened.
It's good to be human and make instant judgments, but if you know that you can choose yourself, I feel like you can enjoy your life in the future.
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