A miserable end waiting for someone who pushes you to know that it's no good from the beginning
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for those who push what they know is no good from the beginning".
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Well, everyone.
Isn't there anyone around you?
Even if you think it's no good from the beginning, you think you'll be able to do something about it, so you come to ask for a favor.
There are a certain number of people in every community.
If it's a percentage, it's probably about 10% to 20%.
If there are 10 people, it's about 1 or 2 people.
First of all, the premise is strange, isn't it?
I know it's no good or impossible from the beginning.
And yet, you're forcing others to do that errands and work.
Give me a hundred steps, it's fine if that person does it.
Because it has nothing to do with me.
It's up to the person to know that it's no good from the beginning and try it, and it's up to him to bother the other person or to be ashamed of himself.
But it's the worst thing to let others do it even though you don't do it, and if it doesn't work, you'll be sorry, isn't it?
"No, no, no, you knew it from the beginning, didn't you? You can only receive it from here, like, "Why did you let me do it?"
It's inefficient to let bad things happen from the beginning, and even if you can't do it, you can also instill the experience in the other person, and on the last day you are disappointed, your sense of self-affirmation will decrease, right?
If you lower your self-affirmation, you will feel that your happiness has decreased by about 30%.
Even if that's not the case, people repeat trials about 60,000 times a day, but the number of times they think about negative things is about 45,000 times.
In other words, about 80% of people think about negative things every day.
That's desolated just by living normally, isn't it?
So, if these people are around you, it may be better to avoid them a little.
Because it may be an entity that pulls your legs.
However, if you have a challenging spirit, it may be good to confront that person once.
I don't recommend it very much, but as a price, it may give birth to a feud with that person.
"I won't lose!" What, if you have a strong will to win, you don't have to go to the point where you make your opponent give in, so if you talk to the other person on your knees once for the time being, you can see the true intention of that person, and you can understand each other. It may change to.
Well, human relationships are also rare that the darkness turns around unexpectedly like this, so when I tried it, I often say, "I should have told you earlier," and everyone is suffering from human relations. Most of the people think about the problem only in their own head, and they are worried when they fail, worry when they are sulking, and they only think about bad results, so the first step does not come out.
But the reality is relatively simple, and when I talked about it, the other person was thinking the same thing, and "No, I don't think about it at all" or "Eh? I don't care about anything." That's what it means.
That's how much people are not interested in other people.
The thing I'm most interested in is myself no matter how I fall.
Because I'm most interested in myself, there are many people who can't afford to be interested in others.
So I think it's a good idea to be relieved and try to hit the other person with that problem.
If you can't hit it, you can run away.
If it's a workplace, you can quit.
There is a shortage of human resources everywhere now, so there are a lot of places to work.
While saying that, I'm also aware that the story is deviating more and more, so I'll put it back at a right angle, but it's today's conclusion.
"The tragic end of waiting for those who impose what they know is no good from the beginning" means that they are disliked.
To be honest, there aren't many people who want to put people around you who might make you unhappy, right?
That's why naturally, such a person means that he will be relegated to a corner.
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