I have a different opinion with my mom friend, what should I do? ( Continuation of yesterday)

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Because you can decide everything about your thoughts and actions.

It's really hundreds of times easier than changing others.

Then, how to change it? That's what it means to accept the other person's opinion honestly.

However, it doesn't mean that you change your opinion and match the other person.

After all, keep your own opinion as it is and show understanding to the other person's opinion.

It's the so-called "accept".

"I see," or "Ah, there is also such a way of thinking," and express the intention to agree.

In this way, as you honestly accept the other person's opinion and repeatedly agree with him, the other party will eventually misunderstand the consultant for his side.

So, when you collect a lot of your ally points and collect them all, you will express your opinion only when you collect them.

"But there is also a way of thinking like this," or "I've heard about it too, but how about this kind of idea?" At first, the point is to convey it as if someone else said it.

In this way, even if the other party does not yet have a system to accept the opinion, the spearhead will not be directed at the consultant.

If you accept it there, it means that the consultant's opinion has finally been understood, and in any case, whether directly or indirectly, it will take a little time for your opinion to be conveyed to the other party. There is no doubt about it.

Therefore, the premise is to be patient to understand each other's differences of opinion.

However, just in case, there are things you shouldn't do.

It is to feel a dilemma and impose your opinion on the other person.

If you do this, you will be out at that point.

I think it's better to think that recovery is quite difficult, but it's okay.

There is a special hand at that time.

That's the way to cut ties with that mom friend.

This is the final method, so if possible, it is a method that you don't want to use too much, but if you correct the original, it means that each other's values are different when there is a difference of opinion, right?

You don't think you want to get along with someone with different values, do you?

In that case, from the beginning, I think it would be good to contact each other about clerical matters without agreeing with each other from the beginning.

In the end.

However, I repeat, the probability of becoming a lifelong friend is almost 0%.

I'm trying my best to make friends in such a small community, so it's hard, so you can make friends in another community.

With like-minded friends.

In a place where you feel comfortable.

That way, even if you are ignored by your mom friends, you won't be desperate and you will think, "It's okay, I have another friend," so you won't be moved at all, even if you are excluded, you will learn a mindset that doesn't care at all. Su.

It's okay.

There are many people who participate in children's school events, if you look around.

Rather, there are some parents who don't come out at all.

So, don't worry.

Also, it happens sometimes, but doesn't it affect children too? That's what I mean, but that's unnecessary worry.

First of all, it is completely nonsense to impose parents' problems on children, so it is better to stay away from such mom friends immediately.

After all, a child raised by such a parent grows up with the same mindset as that parent, and when he is with a child with that mindset, even his own child's heart is eroded, so I don't say it's honest, but he has an honest heart If you want to hold it and grow honestly, it is wiser to stay away from the consultant.

At first, I think there are many things to think, such as "I'm lonely", "I'm worried," and "I'm sorry,", but I'll quickly get used to those emotions.

The younger children are, the better their ability to adapt to the environment.

So, there is no need to worry at all.

Even so, I can't get used to it, and I'm worried that I won't be able to go to school or something, but there's no need to force myself to go there, and in this day and age, there are also various free schools, so it's better to force you to go to a school you don't like, which is rather, in the future, personality There is a high possibility that personality will be greatly distorted, so we recommend that parents deal with it with a flexible head just like their children.

Parents are worried about their children's future and try to decide their children's future with their own values, but just as the values of themselves and their parents' generation are very different, the values of themselves and their children's era have also changed considerably. Mas.

Not now, it seems that the probability of a job that can be done in the future is 60%.

In other words, more than half of the current occupations will disappear.

Therefore, there may be some professions that you can't become by just going to school normally.

The future is unknown.

No one can predict it, so why don't you trust your child without making assumptions from now on?

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