If you improve your listening skills, it will be easier for you to make friends.(2021/9/30 I took the plunge and talked to someone for the first time‼️'s brush-up blog)

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today I will brush up on my past blog and explain about "It's easier to get along if you improve your listening skills".

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When I took the plunge to talk to someone who I normally don't talk to at all, he was surprisingly friendly.

The influence of the appearance is pulled, isn't it?
​​(90% of people are visually impaired, and books became a hot topic at one point. That's true. But there are quite a few people who misunderstand this. Appearance is only information that comes in from the sense of sight. In fact, it seems that the information that comes in through hearing is also included, and that is 90%. That's right.Even so, the appearance is 80%, so it seems that it is better to pay attention to the appearance.)​

From there, I continued to talk while exploring what the other person was interested in, and I began to talk more and more about myself.

It was a day when I thought that I could have the courage to talk to him about various things because he even told me things like, "I haven't heard that much...".
​​(Here, I use my ability to listen. Basically, people are creatures that want to talk to others. That's why people prefer talking to listening. You can become a rare person with just that alone.Moreover, as you repeat this, one day you will be labeled as "Ah, that person is someone who will listen to you."That will give you a sense of security and trust. It makes you feel more comfortable, and you can build very good relationships.Moreover, if you improve your questioning skills, some people will tell you more about themselves.Some of them can't tell others Some people also tell secrets.Sharing secrets increases intimacy, so if there are people you want to get along with more, I recommend sharing secrets.But there are three things to be aware of.Suddenly too deep. Also, do not share the secret with others.Also, abuse is strictly prohibited.If you do not follow these three rules, you will not only lose credibility, but if you do not do well, you will be involved in troublesome incidents.​​

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Please note that not all people talk a lot from the beginning due to their personality.

Some of them are unfriendly, don't smile, or don't talk much.
​​(If you really want to connect with such a person, don't give up and try to talk to them. Start with greetings, talk about the weather, work, recent events, etc.) When you've loosened up, the other person has started to talk to you, and you've started talking more, it's okay to ask about your hobbies, how you spend your days off, what you like, and other private matters. , Don't deny or make fun of what the other person is saying.In addition, if the other person shuts his mouth, looks suspicious, or has an aura that you don't want to answer, don't listen any further. No matter how much you get along well, there are some places you don't want to step into, so it's better to be careful not to enter any further.)​​

That's why today I've explained about "It's easier to get along if you improve your listening skills".

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