A way of speaking that is not disliked
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Well, everyone.
Have you all been in trouble at least once?
When communicating with others, it is said that you ask the other person's face color, or that you proceeded with the conversation while watching the mood.
In the end, it's quite troublesome to have a conversation while listening to the other person's mood, isn't it?
Because I can't say what I like, and if I say it, if the other person is in a bad mood, I don't like it even if it becomes troublesome later, and I don't want to destroy human relationships, and everyone will think about not only the other person's circumstances but also their own circumstances, right?
If possible, you don't want to make waves, do you?
It's unnecessary.
If the place passes peacefully, there's nothing better than that.
That's the right answer, probably.
For many people, maintaining the status quo is the most appreciated.
Because the brain also wants it on a regular basis.
It's just, well, the world is not all people who know their hearts.
Sometimes I have to go out with people I don't like.
What will be useful when you say that is the skill I will talk about today.
That is "a way of speaking that is not disliked by others."
The place called one choice is a relatively point, and in fact, there are many ways to talk that are not disliked by others.
However, it's quite difficult to introduce all of it, and in the place where I introduced it, I probably can't remember it.
I can't master it.
So, today, I would like to introduce the main class among them.
It will be quite an essential content, so please remember this only today, and please try to practice it in everyone's real life.
So, the introduction is long, so I will touch on the specific method.
The method is to make sure that you don't touch the unpleasant topics of the other person.
Right?
What you do is very simple and simple, isn't it?
If it's this, anyone can do it right away, right?
Because you don't have to touch the other person's unpleasant topic.
If you don't touch a bad topic, it means you won't spoil the other person's mood or mood.
If you don't hurt the other person's mood and mood, you will have zero factors to be disliked.
Well, on the contrary, it's just that you don't like me, but it's different whether you're liked or not.
Well, it's still better than being disliked, isn't it?
At the very least, you have to be hated.
Moreover, if you really want to be liked by the other person, after mastering the way of speaking that the other person does not hate, this time, if you study the way of speaking that the other person likes and practice it, that's fine.
So first of all, how to talk that the other person does not hate you, that is, do not touch a topic that will upset the other person's mood or mood, and even if you touch it, please try to deflect from the topic immediately.
If you do that, you will be able to talk in a way that is not disliked well.
However, I think there are some people who say, "I don't know when the other person feels bad or in a bad mood."
For such a person, the first thing to do is to pay attention to the facial expression and this.
Next, even if the attitude, gestures, and the ending of the words become stronger, or the words themselves become rough, it is evidence that the other party does not like it, so if you see such a gesture, we recommend that you switch the topic immediately.
However, there are people inside who have a bully constitution.
If you misunderstand that the other person really doesn't like it, and if there is a response that you can have a good feeling with facial expression, voice quality, and bright tone, on the contrary, you will misunderstand that the other person is happy.
So, I'm going to deepen the topic that the other person doesn't like.
If you do this, it's the worst, isn't it?
Even if you think you had a good time selfishly on the spot, the other party is not fun at all, so there will be no next time, right?
That's why I don't understand.
Because one day, that person's attitude suddenly changes completely.
I don't understand what I did at all.
I don't realize at all that the way I talk was off the other person's mood.
I selfishly proceeded with the story that the other person doesn't like, and self-interpreted that I was likable the other person's reaction and response, and said, "This is a response!" That's why I misunderstood it on my own.
I'm really sorry.
If you didn't make a mistake at first, you should have built a good relationship.
In that way, there are quite a lot of people who miss the chance to build a good relationship.
So, everyone, please try to reflect on your own way of speaking in order not to do so.
I think it is to switch to life easy mode more and more in order from those who noticed this earlier.
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