I have a different way of thinking, what should I do?
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Today's consultant seems to be worried about a different way of thinking.
However, this is not a cold treat, but it's a fact that can't be helped no matter how you go up, right?
Because everyone has a different process of life, isn't it quite difficult to make it the same now?
I'm not saying anything appropriate, but for example, let's say the other person has lived for 30 years.
So, it means that you are 30 years old, but isn't that person's current way of thinking that it is the accumulation of that person for 30 years?
Every day, every moment, every moment, I've seen and heard a lot of things, accumulated them, and made me fall into myself, and it's all I've believed in, right?
Isn't it quite difficult to suddenly switch and say, "Yes, that's right, you're right," just because someone with a different idea suddenly appeared in front of you, isn't it?
Of course, it can be said not only to the other person, but also to the consultant.
Rather, doesn't it look more suspicious for people who easily change their thoughts like that?
"Isn't there something behind it?" That's it.
In other words, first of all, the other person is a person who can be trusted by 80%.
Because I don't bend my thoughts right away.
At first glance, I have the image of a stubborn and troublesome person, but a person who changes his way of thinking is a person who is good at adapting to people.
Well, there are good meanings and bad meanings, but in a nutshell, it's a beautiful woman in all directions.
In other words, you have a good face for everyone.
So, a person who changes his mind means that he is changing his opinions one after another according to the other person in order to make a good face to everyone.
How about it?
When you ask like this, don't you feel like you're an untrustworthy person?
So first of all, it is necessary to analyze what kind of person the other person is in general.
Don't you stubbornly accept people's ideas?
Or do you still believe that your idea is correct even though you show a certain understanding?
Or are you just doing it for harassment?
Well, I don't think there are many last patterns, but in any case, it's generally fine, so depending on which of these three patterns applies, the way to deal with it will be different.
First of all, the first pattern is a person who stubbornly refuses to accept people's ideas.
Such a person is a person who never bends his own thoughts, even if the other person's thoughts are correct no matter how generally they think about them.
I don't want to admit that my ideas are wrong in the first place, I feel such stubbornness, difficulty, and high pride.
Well, it's a way to deal with people like this, but it's easy.
First of all, the method is to prioritize the other person's ideas and adopt them.
Even if the other party's idea is wrong.
People of this type, even if they hit their own ideas head-on, are almost always parallel.
No matter how much explanation, no matter what kind of explanation, first of all, there is a belief that you are right, and even if you are wrong, it is difficult to say it, and in the end, you don't want to acknowledge the other person's ideas until the end, such a psychology works. It is.
So it's useless to try to convince that type of person.
It's a waste of time, so in such a case, I'll break up first.
Even so, it doesn't break for free.
The broken part will be collected later.
In other words, at first, accept the other person's argument.
Agree, agree, and say, "Isn't it?" It doesn't matter if it's a lie, so hit the hammer and lift the opponent up.
Repeat that, make the other person feel good, and when you gain the other person's credibility, this is your turn.
People don't want to believe whatever people they don't trust say, do they?
Rather, I don't even want to listen to that person's story itself...
So, although it's in the middle of the conversation, how was the answer so far?
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