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A dangerous trap for living in dualism.

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Today, I will talk about "the dangerous trap of living in dualism".

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That's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Do you all know the word dualism?

First of all, I will explain it a little roughly only to those who do not know, but dualism is "combining and thinking about the opposite".

Although it is this dualism, in fact, if you have this thought pattern, it will be quite troublesome, and in everything, you will think about things by "whether there is or not", so you will not be able to afford it, or you will lose play, or it will be too extreme and life will be rather difficult. I'm coming.

Isn't there anyone around you who is giving up on life?

Such people often have this thought pattern.

Actually, I don't know until I try it, but I think it's no good from the beginning, I gave up, and I'm not motivated anymore.

On the contrary, I will only do what I can do.

This is also a waste, isn't it?

Again, if you don't try, you won't know that you can't do it, can't you?

But if you give up on it from the beginning, you won't try to do it again with almost 99% chance, normally?

For example, there are almost no people who try to get a motorcycle license that they were trying to get when they were young when they get older.

It's the same.

In other words, if the thought pattern becomes dualistic, there is certainly a convenient side, but if it is too biased, your head will become ticking and take away your own potential and the possibility of others, such a danger is lurking. Su.

So, don't you feel that your life will be richer if you think about things a little more flexibly than thinking about things just by "there is or not"?

As for how to think about things, if you register as a friend from my official LINE and ask questions, I will definitely answer you.

I will post my LINE ID and QR code at the bottom of this blog.

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