Depending on how you think about it, you can do it, and you can do it.

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Today, I'm going to talk about "Depending on how you perceive it, you can be a capable person and a bad person."

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Well, everyone.

Aren't you around?

A person who says, "This person will do unnecessary things every time."

From the point of view of the person himself, he is doing it with a kind intention, but from the point of view of the person who got it, he will think, "I don't want it that much ..."

It's a so-called, grateful nuisance.

This is a thank you nuisance, but in fact, it depends on your way of thinking, you can see it as a good person and a bad person.

Did you know?

Today, I'm going to talk about the trick.

Well, first of all, I'll start with the conclusion.

That's "thank you for doing it."

"What's that?" I think I can hear the word, but it's actually like this.

If you just think about it, it's free, so think you've been deceived and try it once.

In the end, even if it's a grateful act that is just appreciated, it's a nuisance, and the ultimate goal is to do what the other party wants, so aren't they both the same?

That means, if you finish both of them, the final goal has been achieved, so let's be aware that it's OK for you first.

Then, next, why does the act of gratitude become a nuisance? I will explain about.

You can understand this well by factoring the nuisance that occurred at this time.

For example, in my case, the other day, I took my colleague's lunch box and put it in the refrigerator.

Then, I thought I would be grateful, but actually, that colleague doesn't put a lunch box in the refrigerator in winter.

It was an image that I always put in, so I put it in the refrigerator because I thought it was good, but it seems that it was a nuisance for the person in question.

The reason is simple.

It seems that it takes a long time to microwave in winter.

Even so, it's about a minute, isn't it?

I felt that even one minute was long, and in the end, the act of "I had it taken away" that took in the previous stage was taken negatively.

Well, it is assumed that that 1 minute will be received differently depending on the TPO, but it depends on whether the person who received kindness there takes it as "If it's about 1 minute, it's okay" or "a minute was wasted" It means that the result will change.

That means that in the end, it is the person who received the kindness to decide whether it is a kindness to be grateful or a nuisance.

Moreover, if you know this logic, you can control it yourself.

What do you think?

This logic.

Don't you think it applies quite well?

That's why I always send out various ways to deal with stress like this.

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