When inviting people, it is effective to hit the lure water
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Well, today I'm going to talk about "When inviting people, it's effective to hit the lure water".
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Well, everyone.
When you invite people to something, for example, events, dates, etc., are you mainly about playing?
Moreover, the purpose is "to get along with that person".
Well, how would you invite everyone?
Do you want to invite me straight?
Or do you ask someone to invite you?
Well, I think there are many other things, but that's today's theme.
This invitation is an action, but I think there are a lot of people who are not good at it, right?
Probably, but the number one reason is that I don't like to be rejected, I get hurt if I'm rejected, or I feel awkward after that, isn't it?
Well, it may touch your mind, but for all these reasons, it's all my own assumption.
Surprisingly, there are many patterns that the person himself doesn't think much about or doesn't care much about.
It's just that the schedule didn't match, or as expected, the two of them suddenly felt awkward from the beginning.
The reason why the two of them are awkward from the beginning is that they just think it's awkward for themselves, not for the other person.
That's why the person who invited you doesn't need to care strangely.
But here, there are a lot of people who misunderstand strangely.
So, aren't there many patterns that you won't invite again?
I lost confidence in myself.
It's really a waste.
And I can't help but say it now, so today I'm going to tell you the best way to raise the probability of getting the OK of the invitation even a little.
The first important thing is to leave the destination to the other party.
I mean, choose where the other person wants to go.
Don't go where you want to go or do what you want to do.
If you suddenly do this from the beginning, the probability of being rejected will rise.
No matter how much you have common interests, you won't be able to do it together.
There are people who want to enjoy it alone, there are people who say, "I don't want it unless I'm a person who knows my heart," and it's a bit shallow to bite in just because they have common interests.
Apart from that, there is another reason to significantly increase the probability.
Before that, is that research method good?
It's okay in everyday conversations, it's okay to hear stories from others, and anyway, the point is to focus on where that person wants to go now and what he wants to do now.
Then why is it good? Speaking of which, it's because "thing I want to do right now, where I want to go right now".
"Right now" is the key.
I want to go right now.
Do you understand?
I want to go to the bathroom right now.
I want to go eat right now.
I have to go help right now.
It has the same mechanism as.
I want to 〇〇 right now.
〇〇 is about your own desire, isn't it?
People are creatures that want to satisfy when a desire is born, so there is a tendency to satisfy that desire.
"Then shall we go together?" If you say it lightly, it's easy to get a light reply of "okay".
Well, I can't say it's 100%, but don't you think the probability will increase quite a bit?
Actually, how is it?
If it's where you want to go and you're not particularly allergic to the other person, don't you think, "Can I go with you?"
However, if the two of you are reluctant, we can all go, and we will respond with ingenuity, so we invite them several times like this.
It feels like it stimulates the other person's desire.
As I said earlier, people have a habit of moving faithfully to their own desires.
It's a pretty high hurdle to put up with your desires.
You all have experience, don't you?
It's pretty hard to overcome your desires.
That's why I introduced a cheat-level trick.
Please try to put it into practice in real life.
Please be sure, but abuse is strictly prohibited, so please be careful about that.
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