How to be careful not to make you feel bad.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "how to be careful not to make you feel bad."

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Don't you have any problems with how to be careful?

You've noticed a lot of things so far, haven't you?

At such a time, I can't close my eyes, but do you have any experience of being careful while thinking, "I'm not good at paying attention to people"?

I think there are quite a lot of people who have experienced this.

That's because we Japanese are still not good at self-assertion, so we are not good at passing our insistence to others.

That's why I'm not good at paying attention to others, I don't have confidence in my thoughts, maybe my interpretation is wrong, and I have a lot of anxiety about whether I'm going to make relationships worse in the first place.

Then it's easier to close your eyes.

It's easier not to make waves.

But in my position, I think it will come out when I have to say it.

When you are a senior in a company organization, when you have a child with a family, or when you become a key position in an organization run by volunteers, there are times when you have to tell members even if you don't like it, or if you live for a long time, you can be applied to various roles. There is.

When I was careful, I was resented by the other party, whispered in the shadows, rumors without roots, and it's not all good at all.

Well, at such a time, don't you want to know if there is a way to be careful without making the other person feel bad?

This is what I have.

A powerful way.

That's "be careful not to be sorry."

In other words, it's obviously the other side that is bad, but I'm a little humble and say something like "I'd appreciate it if you could stop it" from the bottom.

It's free, it's not enough to say this line.

In addition, I changed my expression to feel sorry, suppressed the volume of my voice, and strengthened the ending of the intonation, and said, "I can understand what you are doing. But the rules here are 〇〇, so can't you suppress it a little?" It's like that.

Well, it will be difficult to be told to do it all of a sudden, and after all, there may be more people who can't keep up with their feelings.

After all, it's not bad here, but it's a little silly.

You feel like you lost, don't you?

That may be obstructed by stubbornness and pride, but as the saying goes, rather than confronting head-on, if you try to finish things quickly, it's better to back down and back down and set up with your opponent, do things better and faster. It's just the right way to fit it.

However, some people get carried away with the good thing that they have been stood up once, so please be careful of such people.

When you show such an attitude, such as taking an arrogant attitude or asking for something, this will cause another problem, so in this case, take a resolute attitude or move forward with a third party in between. I'll do it.

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