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Why are young people these days so weak and fragile?
The answer is right in front of your eyes, if you look in the mirror you will see it. Yes, that's right, it's you (the adults) there.
If you think something is bad for children (it may have a bad influence), you immediately block it. You are the ones who want to impose regulations, and create useless regulations, so-called "old man regulations", one after another.
By doing such things thinking they are good, you unconsciously deprive children of the opportunity to grow.
The world is not a fairy tale, but rather it is very harsh, and sometimes it shows its cruel and ugly face. In order to live in such a world, it is necessary to be exposed to such aspects from an early age, to look at it with your own eyes, and then to train your mind and activate your immunity. Sometimes you need to be exposed to strong stimulation, endure it, and train yourself, but unfortunately the adult society today does not understand this and has become overprotective. As a result, children are confined in an isolated world where they do not receive the stimulation necessary for their growth, and where they have no opportunity to come into contact with the harshness and horror of society, preventing their growth. They are raising defenseless adults who do not have the resistance and immunity that will be essential when they enter adult society. How long do you adults intend to continue doing such irresponsible things!?
Parents and other adults (school teachers, neighbors, etc.) who do not scold their children are no exception. "I feel sorry for the child." Yes, I do. "It is painful to see a child cry, it hurts my heart." Yes, that is true, but when a child does something bad, we should scold them and punish them if necessary. That is the mission and responsibility of adults. To neglect this is nothing but child abandonment, or a sinful and extremely troublesome evil. "I can't scold someone else's child" - what an irresponsible thing to say. You should know that there is a limit to avoiding responsibility.
It's about time you understood this. You cowardly and irresponsible adults are repeating harmful acts. It's time to wake up.
Please stop and think carefully once. Why do young people go out into society, get a job, and when they are lightly reprimanded, overreact by saying, "Oh, I was really scolded," and fall into a mental illness called "modern depression"? The answer is very simple, too simple. Please remember. Why was the death rate extremely high at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic? Why did the death rate drop drastically after that?
Pampering children as much as possible and isolating them in a place where they are only kind is not good for them at all, it only harms them. That's all.

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