Ten things you like about your significant other

Hi there, 

Its day 8 of blogging. 

Today's topic is about "Ten things I like about my significant other". Quite a hard topic isn't it... but I guess it's a good time to reflect parts I like about my relationship/significant other. 

5 months since I have been in a relationship and to be honest with you, it is more struggle than happiness to me. Maybe because I am just not used to this relationship things. So many things I do not understand, so many times I feel emotionally left, unneeded, sad, worried, but with those emotions, I think I was able to grow as a person and I would like to highlight the good parts in him... let's make it 5,, since its 5th month. 

1. He is nice. I think because he doesn't show his emotions that often but when I am with him, I can see he cares about me and he puts my choice before his. When he does this, I feel treasured and safe. I can recognize that he does like me, and cares which is hard to feel through his facial expression or texting. 

2. He is knowledgable. He knows small facts about any topic. This opens up my world, makes me realize how much I do not know about the world and so much more to explore. I like people who open up my sight. when people know things I never experienced or never known, I feel motivated to improve myself which at the end helps me improve as a person 

3. He is strong-willed. Everything he does is connected to his morals or beliefs. I don't think he does anything against his belief or gets influenced by others. When he chooses to do something, he does not care about other opinions and just do it as he, please. This part, I admire about him. I am more the opposite. Opposite attracts I guess. 

4. He is hardworking. With work, with friends, I can see he puts his effort into things he values. He doesn't show how hard he works but from his comments/ attitude, I can see he is hardworking. I guess that's how he grew up being very competitive. Sometimes the competitive side does kind of scare me but myself not caring if I lose or since I tend to stay away from conflicts, listening to his stories does open up my perspective in things. 

5. He is calm and patient. I just have to thank him for his patience with me. I like to take things slow and he adjusted to my speed. He never pushes his emotions to me and tries to stay calm in every situation. in the 5 months, we never fought. Not sure if this is a good thing but it shows how he can control his emotions which is rare for our age i feel like?

Listing all 5 during the process, I realized I tend to see the negative in all his good points, I guess I am not in a good mood today but I do thank my significant other for all the experiences.

I don't know how long it will last, but I can say I grew up as a person very much compared to 5 months ago. I am still immature, I am imperfect, but I hope this relationship makes me feel full, struggle, and grow in all situations. 

I think I am emotionally tired today so I will go asleep now. 

Good night guys, sleep tight. its the end of August, summer coming to an end. How fast, time flies, I miss the old times...