How to Enjoy Conversation

I realized. People don't want to know about you. They want you to know about them. They want to be in a situation they can talk about themselves freely. Make such situations. But how? 

1. Be open, no secret 
2. Live your life, don't rely on someone else
3. See what they feel, ask what they feel
4. Relax, be yourself
5. Don't speak, listen, never interrupt 
6. Agree or disagree
7. Be more specific
8. Help raise the resolution of what others say
9. Be devoted to conversation